To whom It may concern with love,

Dear Brothers and Sisters and Friends.

Peace on you and Allah blessings and mercies.. And after that:

I know that I speaks about a case that a lot of people gossiped lot about it, for a long periods that made it as an evil or same so.

I will start my word with what Allah have said in the Holly Quran :

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"Marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses of slaves. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice]" Sura An-Nisaa 3.

And this Ayah is an un-separated part of the Holly Quran.

And to all Muslims the six pillars of faith that was included in the Ayah:

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"O you who have believed, believe in Allah and His Messenger and the Book that He sent down upon His Messenger and the Scripture which He sent down before. And whoever disbelieves in Allah, His angels, His books, His messengers, and the Last Day has certainly gone far astray." Sura An-Nisaa 136.

And the hadith that he (the prophet peace be upon him) answered Jibril with saying : faith is to believe in Allah and his angels and books and his Allah- meting and his messengers (prophets) and the day of resurrection and its reliving of judgment). At Bokary 50.

What a lot of people are saying and specially women from scratching this ayah or even shading on its last part saying that all men can't be fair with wives, made a very big crake, Allah said helping and giving a gift of mercy to his slaves, and stopping the disbelievers of his commands, with:

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"And you will never be able to be equal [in feeling] between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. So do not incline completely [toward one] and leave another hanging. And if you amend [your affairs] and fear Allah - then indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful." Ayah An-Nisaa 129.

Those people's acts are one of this four:

First: Channing the words meaning, or placing them in another place and that is not accepted in Islam:

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Allah said in the Holly Quran:

"So for their breaking of the covenant We cursed them and made their hearts hard. They distort words from their [proper] usages and have forgotten a portion of that of which they were reminded. And you will still observe deceit among them, except a few of them. But pardon them and overlook [their misdeeds]. Indeed, Allah loves the doers of good." Al-Maaida 13.

Second: Cursing and speaking bad of men's who have more than one wife, Multiplexer wives, saying that all of them aren't fair, with that the include the prophet Muhammad and all other prophets and their followers, and all other Muslims. This come confirm with Backbiting back talking and falsehood laying on them and that will be like what is been told by Aby horairah May Allah be pleased with him that the prophet peace be upon him said: (Do you know what backbiting?) Said Allah and His Messenger know best, he said: (remembrance talking in back of a brother; that he dislikes), they said if what I say is in my brother? He said: (If what you said and gossiped about is in him it is Backbiting back talking , but if not then you falsehood laid and framed about him) Abu Daud. And in Islam if someone meant to decries or gossip badly on the prophet Muhammad then he is a disbeliever that must be punished.

Third: the abjection on something that Allah ordered or accepted or promoted of, it's a rejection. And who reject anything of what is told in the rules of Islam; that is a rejection of Allah's judgment and that is not promoted. The Muslims men and women must oblige fully and surrender to Allah commands, no one has the right to change them or chain them but Allah, he said in the Holly Quran:

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"[Say], "Then is it other than Allah I should seek as judge while it is He who has revealed to you the Book explained in detail?" And those to whom We [previously] gave the Scripture know that it is sent down from your Lord in truth, so never be among the doubters.[114] And the word of your Lord has been fulfilled in truth and in justice. None can alter His words, and He is the Hearing, the Knowing.[115] And the word of your Lord has been fulfilled in truth and in justice. None can alter His words, and He is the Hearing, the Knowing.[116] Indeed, your Lord is most knowing of who strays from His way, and He is most knowing of the [rightly] guided.[117]" Al-An'aam.

Fourth: Dissemination injustice of all of people that they are all unfair between their wives particularly and other women in general, saying it's impossible; that men bend to one over the other, with that we say Islam says that dissemination of bad subjects are not excepted and bad by itself. Narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him said, "If the man said people are perished because of the evil that there doing his is the one destroyed and perished of that thing," Muslim 2623.

I had presented all what I have to my brothers and reading friends, fearing there falling in the gossiper's mistakes or faith disturbance with out noticing that lost. So what is true it is from Allah, and what is false is from me and the mistaking devil. I ask Allah to guide every one to the true path and guidance and the obligatory and the uniting and meting in haven with his prophets and followers.

Peace on All believers, and with love to you all.

Abd-Alaziz Ale-Abd-Almohsen

Written in 17-Muharram-1435H, 20 November 2013

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